I told you so..."a sea of change in gender relations within marriage"

it isnt just black women who are struggling with the issue of the wage gap between men and women

it isnt simply that black men cant get it together

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apparently men are struggling with defining what it means to be a man outside of gender (and class and race and sexuality) based reified economic and social segregation and dominance....

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/01/19/us/19marriage.html

update(1/20/10): A sea of change in gender relations across the world!!!!

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/01/18/world/europe/18iht-women.html?em